How To Attract Women: Seven Dating Secrets Men Should Know
Monday, 24 March 2008 00:00
It is easy to attract women when you know the dating secrets--no matter how unsuccessful you feel. As a coach, many of my clients felt they could not attract women and found it painful to go to social events. But once they paid attention to these dating secrets, they learned how easy it was.
Here are the seven dating secrets to help you attract who you want:
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Do You Want More Dates?
Monday, 17 March 2008 00:00
Would you like to have more dates and less sitting at home? Do you want to go out more often so you feel you have a wider choice of who you want for a mate? Do you know the way to accomplish this?
There are definite strategies and plans to have more dates, more choices, and more fun. Many of these tips were discovered as the steps to a successful business and can be applied to being successful in getting more eligible people to ask you out. Here are six steps to get more dates:
What is your goal?
Do you have a clearly defined goal of attracting more people into your life? If not, why not? Pinpoint the reason you feel you are not dating and start working toward satisfying your need. Do you need to get your financial house in order? Do you need to get to the gym, exercise, and get yourself in shape? Do you need a makeover? Or do you lack confidence? Ask yourself what is holding you back and take steps to remedy it. Help is there for you if you ask for it.
What are your plans to get more dates?
Not much happens in life unless you do something about it. Do you have some strategies for meeting people? Or have you tried going out a couple of times, not had any luck, and have given up? Now is the time to take out your calendar, make plans with some of your friends to go places this month, call people and tell them you would like to meet someone, and look into an Internet dating service. Do something.
Do you keep your word with yourself and others?
Be sure you are accountable to someone. That is why it is important to make plans with friends to go places. Tell your best friend what you are going to do to meet future dates and then be accountable to them for doing it. If you don't know how to be accountable to a friend or family member around your plans and promises to meet people, hire a coach.
Do you believe you will never meet someone wonderful for you?
Check your beliefs. If you think you can't do something, you won't. Replace your negative thoughts with words of encouragement. If you do it often enough, you will start to believe your new voice.
Do you have a support system in place?
You need allies in your corner, cheering you on, urging you out to meet people. Learn to start conversations when you are meeting new people, build friendships, be generous with those you care about, and take good care of yourself at all times.
Do you applaud your own efforts?
Often, when we are trying to learn new skills and confidence, if we don't perform the way we think we should, we are hard on ourselves. Every time you make an effort to go places and reach out to people, no matter how it turns out, give yourself a pat on the back for trying.
There are all kinds of interesting, fabulous, wonderful people out there for you to meet. Do you want more dates? If you do, think about the above. Your dating life is waiting for you
5 Great Romantic Dates
Monday, 10 March 2008 00:00
Have you ever lost touch with someone and now you’re getting back together? Did something come along and sideline your relationship and you just never got back to it for whatever reason?
Or have you met someone exciting and new and you want a memorable date as a first date to make the beginning of what you hope will be many more happy ones? You’re smitten, you can’t wait to see each other, and you want something special.
Sunday Nights And Single
Monday, 03 March 2008 00:00
If you are single, what is it about Sunday night that can make you feel lonely and depressed? Besides wanting a relationship, what else is giving you the blues? Is it the guilt that you feel from all the weekend tasks that went from good intentions to no attention?
Being single on a Sunday night can bring an affliction I call The Sunday Night Miseries. These miseries, like taco sauce, come in three levels of intensity: mild, medium, and hot. What does that look like?
Guys Like Girls With These Four Features
Monday, 25 February 2008 00:00
Do you know what four features men find most attractive in women? You may think it is four physical features in how women look that guys like, and though the outward presentation may draw him to her, that is not what keeps him there.
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