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June 10, 2010: Watch Tonja speak on It's Your Call with Lynn Doyle on Comcast Network & Retirement Living TV, Philadelphia.

June 21, 2010: Tonja talks to Guy & Melissa on Sacramento & Company, KXTV/ABC, News10.  See her interview, courtesy of Sacramento & Company.

June 23, 2010: See Tonja on San Diego Living, San Diego 6, courtesy of San Diego Living.

June 24, 2010: Watch Tonja's interview on Daybreak on the Deuce KWGN/KDVR Colorado, courtesy of Daybreak on the Deuce.

June 26, 2010: Tonja speaks with Dr. Anne Marie Evers about the Magic of Relationships, 12:30-1:00pm PST, on www.contacttalkradio.com

July 9, 2010: Tonja to appear on WXIN FOX59 & WTTV INDIANA'S 4, Indianapolis, 9:15am EST.

July 11, 2010: Tonja to appear on The Weekend Show, KTNV, Las Vegas, 6:50am PST.

July 12, 2010: See Tonja speak to Dao & Shawn on The Morning Blend, Channel 13, KTNV, Las Vegas, from 9-10am PST.

July 14, 2010: Tonja will be in Houston, Texas, on the CW Network, Channel 39's Outlook Houston, 1-2pm CST.

July 16, 2010: See Tonja on WKYC-TV in Cleveland, Ohio between 10-11am EST.

 

See more of Tonja's internet, radio, print, and television appearances.

Best Way To Get Your Ex Back Now

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Written by Tonja Monday, 08 December 2008 00:00

Do you know the best way to get your Ex back? Would you like to start NOW so you don't waste anymore time? If you are missing the love of your life, here are some of the qualities you need to think about if you want your Ex back. If you had any of the following issues going on when you were dating, you need to work them out before you call your Ex to talk.

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The Dating Single Parent

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Written by Tonja Monday, 01 December 2008 00:00

Are you single, dating, and trying to raise good kids? Every year, almost two and a half million people become single. Statistically, most of these people have been married for up to ten years and have children. What they soon discover is--dating with children is a challenge.

If you or someone you know is facing this reality, here are some thoughts to consider:

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Thanksgiving Wisdom for Singles: Gratitude Makes You Attractive

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Written by Tonja Monday, 24 November 2008 00:00

This is the best time of year for singles if you would like to date or meet someone. There are parties to go to and events scheduled that will get you out of the house to socialize. I think Thanksgiving is the best time of all, since it puts you in touch with gratitude. An attitude of gratitude makes you extremely attractive.


Being grateful also brings you more of what you want, because what you think about and focus on has a way of expanding. If you concentrate on what is missing in your life, you will attract more lack.

Now is the season to make a list of what you are grateful for. Here are some questions to get you started on enhancing your attractiveness. Notice how people start responding to you after you spend some time thinking about the following thoughts and writing them down:

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Seven Reasons Why You're Just Not That Into Him

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Written by Tonja Monday, 17 November 2008 00:00

"He's just not that into you." Have you heard this statement? Maybe when you look at some important missing elements in your relationship you'll conclude that you are "just not that into him". Perhaps it is time to rediscover your dignity, self-respect, and an "I've got better things to do" attitude, rather than hope for someone to come around who's not really into the relationship.

If you are dating someone who is showing you a blatant lack of interest, here are seven reasons why he is not available to the relationship and why you are just not that into him:

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Dating Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make

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Written by Tonja Monday, 10 November 2008 00:00

If you’re reading this column, you’ve probably had a few dates in your life. And looking back, I’m sure you’ve made a few dating mistakes you’d like to forget. The only good thing about a dating error is that you don’t have to make that mistake again.

One of my clients met a guy online and fell in love. Unfortunately, she trusted him before she knew him. He turned out to have a wife in another state. He also took her savings and maxed out her credit cards. It took her two years to heal her heart and get her financial credibility back.

Three years later, she met someone else online. Learning from her mistake, she had him checked out by a private investigator. He turned out to be a great guy. After a year of dating, they got married. If you don’t want to find yourself with a big dating mistake, pay attention to these situations:

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