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Living Now Awards gives Thriving After Divorce a bronze metal in the category Relationships/Marriage.

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Attraction that Sticks

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Saturday, 14 May 2011 18:12

You've heard the expression..."No pain...no gain?". It gets tossed around often in conversations.  We take that phrase and make it a mantra.  We incorporate it into our lives and become addicted to attracting one crisis after another.  And then we assume, "That's life," or, "That's just my luck," or "Life is hard."

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Your Attracting Powers

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Wednesday, 11 May 2011 18:53

There is no denying that the enthusiasm and excitement you feel for your life...and about your life...is what attracts people to you.  Evidence to support this idea can be found in books about the power of attraction, thousands of research studies exploring its components, and examples all around you of the people who have discovered the magic of living with the laws of attraction.  The core principle in attraction is this: energy.

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Is He Interested?

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Saturday, 07 May 2011 19:10

How can you tell if a guy likes you?  Why are some guys hard to read?
Here are five signs that you’ve got his attention.  If you notice any of the following, he is probably interested:

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Come Together

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Friday, 06 May 2011 04:01

We come together in relationships to be better than we can be alone.  When you choose someone who is your equal...each of you superlative in your own unique ways that the other one isn't, you become smarter.  Together you can write a better song, weave a stronger cloth, hone your perceptions, deepen your intellectual capacities, and spread a wider net to collect rubies of information.

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How to Meet Someone Wonderful?

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Tuesday, 03 May 2011 19:30

When I hear people expressing their sadness about how they don't have a life partner...I hear what's missing ... I understand, and reassure them that they are not alone.  More importantly, however, I suggest that they look at stepping up the venues for meeting someone.  

Example: I have a 43-year-old client; never married; only one serious relationship in her life; a few Internet dates.  This woman is BEAUTIFUL but couldn't either attract (?) a date or find someone who even remotely interested her.  I told her to tell EVERYONE she came in contact with that she would like to meet someone wonderful.  

At first she fought it ... She thought she should just be able to meet someone like "normal" people do; that it should happen "naturally"; that she'd meet someone when it was "meant to be"; and that telling others was embarrassing!  She also said she HAD told everyone ... and I know she believed that when she said it.  But I never buy into that. Until you've met THE ONE... you can NEVER tell enough people you want to meet someone special.  

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