Will He Remember You Tomorrow?

Monday, 26 January 2009 00:00

Confidence

If he calls you tomorrow depends a lot on your confidence. Confidence is an inside job, and if you are single and wanting to date, you want to do everything you can to develop this very attractive quality. Confidence definitely helps you be remembered. It is built on the bricks of integrity, career success, financial balance, close ties to others, and a sense of purpose to your life. If you feel you are weak in any of these areas, help is out there for you.

Try

Whether or not he calls you tomorrow and being remembered has a lot to do with try. The person who gets what they want is not afraid to Further, they don't get put off easily. They hang in there, set their eyes on their goal and then they do everything they know to do to get it.

What does that quality look like in a single who wants to date? You go out, you reach out, and if it doesn't turn out the way you hoped it would, you get up in the morning and know that you have another day of opportunity in front of you. In the meantime, you want to look at how you can polish your presentation and hone in on your uniqueness.

Laser speechIf you want a guy to remember you tomorrow, you need to speak up and tell him who you are. You need to be clear and succinct. Some people call it an elevator speech because if you met someone on an elevator, in the amount of time it takes to go from one floor to another, you have to identify yourself. If you had 60 seconds, what would you say? When you have your laser speech crafted, practice it on your friends.

Define yourself

This is where the challenge comes in. What is it about you that no one will forget? Your name, city, school you went to, and job you do are probably forgettable if someone is meeting a room full of people. And though it is true that if you rafted down the Amazon or spent the summer with aborigines, you would have some interesting stories to tell, most people haven't done anything that exotic. But it isn't necessary. You can take any life and make it interesting.

Example: Hi. I am known as Mary Smith and I am from Kansas. However, what few people know is that I'm the grown up Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz. You probably didn't recognize me because I left my red shoes and Toto at home.

Humor

If you are comfortable telling funny stories, you are going to have no trouble being remembered. However, there is a delicate balance to find when you are talking about yourself with humor. You don't want to sound like you are putting yourself down so much, you are begging for attention or a compliment. Keep the self-deprecating humor light.

Once you have gotten out of the house and practiced some of the above, you will begin to understand what attracts people, what brings you dates, and what causes him to call you tomorrow.