How To Attract Women: Seven Dating Secrets Men Should Know
Monday, 24 March 2008 00:00
1. Show up!
Someone once said, ninety percent of success is showing up. You've got to get out of the house. You've got to make a plan and then take the actions needed to execute the plan. Take out your calendar, call your friends, and commit to going places. When you make an agreement to go somewhere with people, the odds are that you will do it.
2. Be friendly
If you feel shy or socially awkward, you need to practice talking to strangers. Go to the mall and find an agreeable looking guy you don't know. Ask him a question. Repeat this process over and over. This technique works! Then, when you get to a social setting, scan the room for an interesting woman, get near her, and ask her a question. If you like her, keep talking. Success means you have to be friendly. Practice friendliness. It works!
3. Grooming Counts
Women like men who are clean, well groomed, and who smell good. Your aftershave should not shout when you enter a room, but a faint masculine scent is appealing. Clean nails, hands, hair, and clothes are necessary. Go through your wardrobe and ask a woman friend what looks good on you. Don't leave the house looking dirty or sloppy. You never know when the right woman will cross your path.
4. There's magic in your eyes!
Women are drawn to men who look them in the eyes when they talk. But here is a major secret few people know, told to me by an expert colorist: wear something the color of your eyes and notice how people are attracted to you. Actually, the eyes have many shades of colors. Identify what they are exactly and then choose clothing that matches one of those colors. One of my clients who once had trouble attracting women wore a shirt the color of green in his eyes and he became irresistible!
5. Polish your communication skills
Wit and humor can be endearing, but don't let it slip the bounds of putting yourself or other people down. Women like men who listen, and then reflect back to them what they heard. Listening to a woman talk makes you very appealing in her eyes.
6. Have a promising future
Women are attracted to a man with a great career or a great career plan. It doesn't matter how successful she is--she wants to know that a guy can take care of her if she needs him to.
7. Attitude affects everything
Avoid blaming and complaining, as well as talking about your Ex, your boss, or anyone you feel victimized by. If you have some past relationships that haunt you, get some counseling. Enthusiasm, confidence, and an upbeat outlook on life are very sexy.
You have everything you need to attract who you want. Polish your best qualities, focus on your strengths instead of your limitations, and enjoy your new-found power. All you need to learn, in order to attract women and have more dates, are these seven secrets.